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Page Contents:
                TCF Web sites:  National web site, Websites in various states, and International web sites.
                Grief Support Web Sites:  Various support websites including SIDS, MISS, SPAN, Operation Angel and others
                Bereaved Parents Wish List:  Compiled by Diane Collins TCF, Bay Area Chapter, Houston
                National Children Memorial: 
A proclamation by the President of the United States 1998
   
              National Magazine:  Information on how to subscribe to the National Magazine.                 

Web Sites of Compassionate Friends TOP

National: Headquarters for The Compassionate Friends:

International: International Web sites 

Alabama: Top
Mobile Chapter

Arizona:
Top
Phoenix Chapter
Tucson Chapter

California:
Top
Contra Costa County
Fort Bragg Chapter
Orange Coast Chapter
Marin County Chapter/San Francisco Satellite
San Diego Chapter
South Bay / Los Angeles Chapter
South Lake Tahoe Chapter
Verdugo Hills Chapter


Delaware: Top
Lewes Chapter

Florida:
Top
Heart of Florida Chapter
Orlando Chapter

Georgia:
Top
Atlanta Area Chapter
Southwest Georgia


Idaho:
Top
Boise Chapter


Illinois: Top


Indiana:
Top
Bedford Chapter
Bloomington Chapter
Central Indiana Chapter
Fort Wayne Chapter
Lafayette Chapter
Lake Porter County Chapter
Southern Indiana Chapter

Iowa:
Top
Central Iowa Chapter

Waterloo-Ceder Falls Chapter

Kansas: Top
Sunflower Chapter

Kentucky: Top
Bluegrass Chapter
Nelson County Chapter
Western KY Chapter

Louisiana:
Top
Baton Rouge Chapter
Hammond Chapter
Houma Chapter
New Orleans Chapter


Maryland:
Top
Delmarva Chapter
Potomac Chapter
St. Mary's County Chapter
Southern Maryland Chapter

Massachusetts:
Top
Cape Cod Chapter
Metrowest Chapter

Michigan:
Top
Flint Chapter
Livonia Chapter
Mid-Michigan Chapter
Troy Chapter


Minnesota:
Top
Alexandria Area Chapter

Mississippi:
Top
Jackson Chapter

Missouri:
Top
Independence Chapter
South Central Missouri Chapter

Nebraska:
Top
Norfolk Chapter
Northeast Nebraska Chapter

New Hampshire:
Top
Monadnock County Chapter


New Jersey:
Top
Atlantic County Chapter
Camden County Chapter
Bergen-Passaic Chapter

Central New Jersey Chapter
Monmouth County
Morris Area Chapter
Ocean County Chapter



New York:
Top
Albany Chapter
Babylon Chapter
Broome County Chapter
Manhasset Chapter
Manhattan Chapter
Medford, Long Island
Mid-Hudson Valley
Oneonta Region Chapter
Rockville Centre Chapter
Rockland County Chapter

North Carolina:
Top
Fayetteville Area Chapter
Wake County Chapter

Ohio:
Top
Canfield - Western Reserve Chapter
Cincinnati Chapter
Columbus - Central Ohio Chapter
Miami County Chapter
Miami Valley Chapter
Miami-Whitewater Chapter
Tiffin Chapter


Oregon:
Top
Pacific View Chapter-Lincoln City
Portland Chapter
Southern Oregon Chapter
Salem Chapter

Pennsylvania:
Top
Delaware County Chapter
Pittsburgh Chapter

South Carolina:
Top
Lakelands Chapter - Greenwood

South Dakota:
Top
Sioux Falls Chapter

Tennessee:
Top
Clarksville Chapter
Nashville Chapter
Upper East Tennessee & Southwest Virginia Chapter

Texas:
Top
Atlanta Chapter of NE Texas
Brazosport Chapter-Lake Jackson
Copperas Grove Texas Chapter
Ft Worth Chapter
Lake Jackson Texas Chapter
Lubbock Texas Chapter

Mid-Tex Chapter
Southeast Texas Chapter
Sugarland-Southeast Hudson Chapter

Utah:
Top
Salt Lake City

Virginia:
Top
Arlington Chapter
Central Virginia Chapter
Fredericksburg Chapter
Harrisonburg-Rockingham Chapter
Piedmont Chapter
Richmond Chapter
SW Virginia/Upper E Tennessee Chapter


Washington:
Top
Eastside Chapter at Evergreen
Seattle Chapter

Wyoming:
Top
Central Wyoming Chapter
Wind River Chapter

International Chapter:
 
Top
Cornwall Ontario Chapter
  Ontario Canada
International Chapter  Malta
Perth Australia Chapter   Australia
Western Australia
  Australia
TCF Queenland   Australia
Ouders an een overleden Kind    Dutch TCF
Les Amis Compatissant du Quebec   French Canadian


Other Grief Support Groups: TOP

Share Atlanta:........................................... For parents who have experienced miscarriage or neonatal loss.
Alexey's Memorial-Page  ....................... Golden tears of a grieving Father.
S.P.A.N........................................................ Suicide Prevention Advocacy Network
Parents of Suicides .................................. It is for parents whose sons and daughters died from suicide.
Grieving Parents  ...................................... Grieving Parents support group
  Grieving Grandparents ............................ Grieving Grandparents support group
SIDS .......................................................... Sudden Infant Death Syndrome and Other Infant Death
Grief Healing  ........................................... Information and support to those who are  coping with the death of a loved one
The Bereavement Journey   
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An email support group, also a place where people can come in and chat.
Tapestries of Hope  ........................................... Information and support for each woman who is grieving the death of her mom or mother figure.  Located in south New Jersey.
Luvnmiss-memories........................................... This site is dedicated to loved ones that have passed on.


 A Bereaved Parent's Wish List  TOP

  1. I wish my child hadn't died. I wish I had him back.

  2. I wish you wouldn't be afraid to speak my child's name.  My child lived and was very important to me.  I need to hear he was important to you also.

  3. If I cry and get emotional when you talk about my child I wish you knew that it isn't because you have hurt me.  My child's death is the cause of my tears.  You have talked about my child, and you have allowed me to share my grief.  I thank you for both.

  4. I wish you wouldn't "kill" my child again by removing his pictures, artwork, or" other remembrances from your home.

  5. Being a bereaved parent is not contagious, so I wish you wouldn't shy away from me. I need you now more than ever.

  6. I need diversions, so I do want to hear about you; but I also want you to hear about me.  I might be sad and I might cry, but I wish you would let me talk about my child, my favorite topic of the day.

  7. I know that you think of and pray for me often.  I also know that my child's death pains you, too.  I wish you would let me know those things through a phone call, a card or note, or a real big hug.

  8. I wish you wouldn't expect my grief to be over in six months. These first months are traumatic for me,  but I wish you could understand that my grief will never be over.  I will suffer the death of my child until the day I die.

  9. I am working very hard in my recovery, but I wish you could understand that I will never fully recover.  I will always miss my child, and I will always grieve that he is dead.
    I wish you wouldn't expect me "not think about it" or to "be happy." Neither will happen for a very long time, so don't frustrate yourself.

  10. I don't want to have a "pity party," but I do wish you would let me grieve. I must hurt before I can heal.

  11. I wish you understood how my life has shattered.  I know it is miserable for you to be around me when I'm feeling miserable. Please be as patient with me as I am with you.

  12. When I say, "I'm doing okay," I wish you could understand that I don't "feel" okay and that I struggle daily.

  13. I wish you knew that all of the grief reactions I'm having are very normal. Depression, anger, hopelessness and overwhelming sadness are all to be expected.  So please excuse me when I'm quiet and withdrawn or irritable and cranky.

  14. Your advise to "take one day at a time" is excellent advice. However, a day is too much and too fast for me right now.  I wish you could understand that I'm doing good to handle an hour at a time.

  15. Please excuse me if I seem rude, certainly not my intent. Sometimes the world around me goes too fast and I need to get off. When I walk away, I wish you would let me find a quiet place to spend time alone.

Compiled by Diane Collins
TCF, Bay Area Chapter, Houston

National Children's Memorial Day TOP

December 11, 1998
NATIONAL CHILDREN'S MEMORIAL DAY, 1998

THE WHITE HOUSE
Office of the Press Secretary
For Immediate Release                                                                                                           December 11, 1998

NATIONAL CHILDREN'S MEMORIAL DAY, 1998

BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
A PROCLAMATION

There is nothing more devastating to a family than the death of a child. Each year, thousands of America's families face this tragedy, losing their children to illness, injury or accident. Our whole society experiences this loss as well, for we are all diminished by the death of every one of our young people, whose love, laughter, talents, and achievements bring so much joy to our lives and so much promise to our future.  The holiday season is an especially painful time for parents who have lost a child, so it is fitting that we set aside a special day during this month to acknowledge the grief of these families and to pay tribute to the lives and memories of their children. On National Children's Memorial Day, let us all reach out, whether as individuals or as members of caring communities, to offer bereaved families the compassion, support, and understanding they need to begin the process of healing.  NOW, THEREFORE, I, WILLIAM J. CLINTON, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim December 13, 1998, as National Children's Memorial Day. I call upon the American people to observe this day with appropriate programs and activities in remembrance of the infants, children, teenagers, and young adults who have died and to bring comfort to their families.  IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this eleventh day of December, in the year of our Lord nineteen hundred and ninety-eight, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and twenty-third.

WILLIAM J. CLINTON
30-30-30

Magazine of The Compassionate Friends TOP

Published Quarterly
$20 per year


To subscribe, write or fax the national office:
The Compassionate Friends, Inc.
P.O. Box 3696
Oak Brook IL 60522-3696
Phone: 630.990.0010
Fax: 630.990.0246

 

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